FORGET about what’s “hot”. If you can look at your partner and feel drawn to them, no matter what the circumstances or wherever you are, OR how ridiculous they look at the time, then THAT’S love… I don’t NEED to see hot… I HAVE love…. and ladies there is nothing more sexy than seeing Ed interacting with our son…. Just a thought taking me over, there… carry on.
I wrote this on my facebook wall (complete with excessive dots which is my trademark) and got virtually no comments. I am wondering why. So, I am asking for opinions/comments from anyone. Do you agree? disagree?
So, let me go back a bit. I am prone to spontaneous urges to document my thoughts, feelings and urges… as I’m sure we all are. Last week I had one such feeling, desire, urge, whatever you want to call it, at the most inopportune time you can imagine – while attending a Day of Reflection for the ministers at our church. It’s not that I wasn’t paying attention, because I was; but there came a point when I looked over at my hubby and was overcome with emotions. There was a deep love, there was respect, there was affection…. and yes, there was frisky. I thank God for him in my life and the family we have created.
Fast forward just a little bit, and I am reminded by the young people in my life how much they admire and are attracted to whatever they consider “hot”. I thought to myself, well, the first thing I thought was how young they are and how much of their lives must pass away before they realize that “hot” usually brings with it disappointment, betrayal (maybe) and too much expectation.
Why are people attracted to “hot”? Well, I’m not going to insert here what I think. I really want to know what YOU think. All I will say of both my Drake and myself is that we are definitely not main stream hotties, though my Drake is a sizzling hot in my eyes. I wrote this post because I see too much out there of people prejudging others on their looks and while there is nothing wrong is sowing wild oats, too often we get hurt or we get into trouble…. real trouble.